Supporting #FBrape

Did you know that Facebook allows groups and pages with names like “Rapist Community,” “This is Why Indian Girls Are Raped,” and “Slapping Hookers in the Face With a Shoe” to exist? I didn’t until yesterday. When confronted about the existence of these pages, Facebook representatives were quoted as saying; “While it may be vulgar and offensive, distasteful content on its own does not violate our policies.” Yet according to Women, Action, & the Media (WAM!) “…Facebook has proven willing to crack down on other forms of hate speech, including anti-Semitic, Islamophobic and homophobic speech, without claiming [humor and/or free speech] exemptions.”

An example of the type of content uploaded to one of these fucked up Facebook pages. WAM! has cataloged many more examples on their website (caution: trigger warning)

It’s ridiculous to say that this sort of content isn’t hate speech. It’s hate speech of the highest order in that it celebrates and promotes multiple forms of violence against a group of people, including rape and murder. As WAM! points out, Facebook seems to get that it’s problematic when the images involve race and sexual-orientation, but for some reason they don’t seem to get it when it comes to women. Disappointing.

Quick side note; I want to say that it’s not only women who have a right to be offended by this crap. In fact, when I see things like this floating around the internet I can’t help but think its men who should be the most offended by it. Please understand that people who produce and promote this sort of content think they speak for all men. They assume all men find these jokes funny and when confronted they rant and rave about “feminists.” So it’s imperative that men (feminist identified or not) who don’t find this stuff acceptable stand up and show these people that they are wrong. It’s imperative that we make it clear to the world that most men are NOT in anyway okay with these sorts of misogynistic “jokes.”

In response to Facebook’s contradictory and shameful handling of the issue, the #FBrape campaign was started by Laura Bates of The Everyday Sexism Project, writer and activist Soraya Chemaly, and Jaclyn Friedman of Women, Action & the Media (WAM!). Their #FBrape campaign documents these pages and their offensive content, pressures advertisers to pull their ads from Facebook (particularly those whose ads have appeared on or next to the offending pages) and in the end hopes to force Facebook to create a policy regarding gender-based hate speech. It appears the campaign is starting to have some impact as well. A few advertisers have pulled their ads and faced with growing media pressure, Facebook has started taking down the very pages and images that they refused to delete before. However, Facebook still hasn’t written a policy regarding this sort of content, so it’s a safe bet that as soon as the media uproar dies down Facebook will go back to it’s old ways.

I fully support the #FBrape campaign and I’m dedicating this week’s post to it because I hope you’ll support the campaign as well. Visit WAM!’s website to learn more about how you can support the campaign, or start by reading more about the campaign here. Finally, I’m including the text of the #FBrape’s Open Letter to Facebook for you to read. The Open Letter doesn’t seem to be open for more signatures, but you can sign a similar petition on (I’ve already signed and I hope you will too);

May 21, 2013

An Open Letter to Facebook:

We, the undersigned, are writing to demand swift, comprehensive and effective action addressing the representation of rape and domestic violence on Facebook. Specifically, we call on you, Facebook, to take three actions:

  1. Recognize speech that trivializes or glorifies violence against girls and women as hate speech and make a commitment that you will not tolerate this content.
  2. Effectively train moderators to recognize and remove gender-based hate speech.
  3. Effectively train moderators to understand how online harassment differently affects women and men, in part due to the real-world pandemic of violence against women.

To this end, we are calling on Facebook users to contact advertisers whose ads on Facebook appear next to content that targets women for violence, to ask these companies to withdraw from advertising on Facebook until you take the above actions to ban gender-based hate speech on your site. (We will be raising awareness and contacting advertisers on Twitter using the hashtag #FBrape.)

Specifically, we are referring to groups, pages and images that explicitly condone or encourage rape or domestic violence or suggest that they are something to laugh or boast about. Pages currently appearing on Facebook include Fly Kicking Sluts in the Uterus, Kicking your Girlfriend in the Fanny because she won’t make you a Sandwich, Violently Raping Your Friend Just for Laughs, Raping your Girlfriend and many, many more. Images appearing on Facebook include photographs of women beaten, bruised, tied up, drugged, and bleeding, with captions such as “This bitch didn’t know when to shut up” and “Next time don’t get pregnant.”

These pages and images are approved by your moderators, while you regularly remove content such as pictures of women breastfeeding, women post-mastectomy and artistic representations of women’s bodies. In addition, women’s political speech, involving the use of their bodies in non-sexualized ways for protest, is regularly banned as pornographic, while pornographic content – prohibited by your own guidelines – remains. It appears that Facebook considers violence against women to be less offensive than non-violent images of women’s bodies, and that the only acceptable representation of women’s nudity are those in which women appear as sex objects or the victims of abuse. Your common practice of allowing this content by appending a [humor] disclaimer to said content literally treats violence targeting women as a joke.

The latest global estimate from the United Nations Say No to Violence Campaign is that the percentage of women and girls who have experienced violence in their lifetimes is now up to an unbearable 70%. In a world in which this many girls and women will be raped or beaten in her lifetime, allowing content about raping and beating women to be shared, boasted and joked about contributes to the normalisation of domestic and sexual violence, creates an atmosphere in which perpetrators are more likely to believe they will go unpunished, and communicates to victims that they will not be taken seriously if they report.

According to a UK Home Office Survey, one in five people think it is acceptable in some circumstances for a man to hit or slap his wife or girlfriend in response to her being dressed in sexy or revealing clothes in public. And 36% think a woman should be held fully or partly responsible if she is sexually assaulted or raped whilst drunk. Such attitudes are shaped in part by enormously influential social platforms like Facebook, and contribute to victim blaming and the normalisation of violence against women.

Although Facebook claims, in a narrowly-defined defense of free speech, not to be involved in challenging norms or censoring people’s speech, you have in place procedures, terms and community guidelines that you interpret and enforce.Facebook prohibits hate speech and your moderators deal with content that is violently racist, homophobic, Islamophobic, and anti-Semitic every day. Your refusal to similarly address gender-based hate speech marginalizes girls and women, sidelines our experiences and concerns, and contributes to violence against them. Facebook is an enormous social network with more than a billion users around the world, making your site extremely influential in shaping social and cultural norms and behaviors.

Facebook’s response to the many thousands of complaints and calls to address these issues has been inadequate. You have failed to make a public statement addressing the issue, respond to concerned users, or implement policies that would improve the situation. You have also acted inconsistently with regards to your policy on banning images, in many cases refusing to remove offensive rape and domestic violence pictures when reported by members of the public, but deleting them as soon as journalists mention them in articles, which sends the strong message that you are more concerned with acting on a case-by-case basis to protect your reputation than effecting systemic change and taking a clear public stance against the dangerous tolerance of rape and domestic violence.

In a world in which hundreds of thousands of women are assaulted daily and where intimate partner violence remains one of the leading causes of death for women around the world, it is not possible to sit on the fence. We call on Facebook to make the only responsible decision and take swift, clear action on this issue, to bring your policy on rape and domestic violence into line with your own moderation goals and guidelines.


Laura Bates, The Everyday Sexism Project

Soraya Chemaly, Writer and Activist

Jaclyn Friedman, Women, Action & the Media (WAM!)



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